HOTmilk Lingerie on the catwalk

skinny models were the standard catwalk models that were available at the Sydney Lingerie show. HOTmilk usually have pregnant models in their shots. The pushchair in the background was the only way they could indicate they were baby related.

Breastfeeding Naturally - Sonia Gray

HOTmilk models are really pregnant

I just answered a couple of common questions about HOTmilk lingerie and the marketing images.

Sexy pregnant models….!

You can read the article here  HOTmilk Lingerie Models

Oh Baby Magazine

Had my first article published in a magazine today. Oh Baby mag!!! Two pages!!!!

 

You can read what I wrote here:  Breastfeeding Tips  hope you like it!

 

 

Annah Stretton

Yesterday I missed an opportunity to meet one of my mentors.  Well, I walked past her in real life, but didn’t think faster to say hello.

I have a bad case of shoulda, woulda, coulda – but Didn’t.

 I still sent her an email, but gutted that I didn’t think faster and actually shake her hand!

 

She did reply to my email though which is very cool!

 

 

Thanks for the feedback Frances,  you should have said hi …..

 Merry Christmas !

 Annah

 

Editor and Publisher
HER, PINK & WHO'S WHO magazines
Stretton Publishing Company Ltd
Cnr Thames and Marshall Streets

P O Box 65
Morrinsville 3340
 
P   07 889 4053

F   07 889 4058

 

      

 

funny gift card message

This is the funniest comment box I’ve ever had with a customer’s order:

 

How Did you Hear about Breastmates? “By accident while searching for porn.   Kidding.  Can't remember sorry, it was ages ago. I get the newsletter and joined the Facebook group, so it's one of the first places I think of for maternity/nursing paraphernalia”

Message for Gift Card: “Dear [name removed]  Please treat yourself a gorgeous HotMilk nursing bra. Email Frances (Breastmates) if you need any advice, she's VERY helpful!!   Lots of love, [names removed]”

 

The funny thing about the gift card message, is that I have to write that myself.  I’m Frances and I’ll be writing a recommendation for myself on this present!!

Processing this order made me laugh.

Introductory Video

It was a bit of historical moment when this film crew came over and took this video of me.  It was done back in March 2009, so it has dated a bit now and my son has grown a lot bigger.

Now you can see the face behind the webpages!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPjIpKSR610

HOT Milk History

HOTmilk pictorial history of all the gorgeous maternity bras and underwear I’ve been selling for the past few years.  I should write a blog about all the gift card messages too, so funny!!

You can see this HOTmilk summary here

Copy Safe

School holidays have started, so it’s a change for me to have a child home while I am working.  When my business first started, I was a Work-at-home-Mum but that was five years ago.  I’ve grown a lot since then, and although it was a tough decision I know that putting my children into childcare was the right decision. 

My eldest started school in October, and so now he is home for 7 weeks for the holidays.  Its cool having my buddy here with me.  I’ve set up a “special desk” for him in my office, and he is doing work.

Yesterday he did a picture plan, and wrote a sentence “I am working with my Mummy”.  Cute.

This morning we played schools, I’m Mrs Broughton his teacher.  I watched while he drew a picture of Spiderman and wrote a story about it.  Then he did a © symbol in the corner.

I laughed!!!  He said “its so no one can copy my work”. 

I didn’t teach him this.  Even though all MY Breastmates work and my pictures are protected by Copy Safe.  (Its on the bottom corner of my website).

How adorable that my son knows this!!

I LOVE IT!!

 

PS> And before you judge his pictures and writing, it’s a miracle that he’ll even sit down with a pen.  This is the boy that likes being outside playing.

 

 

Nappy Change Mat and Wallet

Great new product is the “B.Box” brand of nappy change mat.  Combined with your wipes and clean nappy, the change mat folds up into its own funky container.

These are super cool for gadget mums!

You can order here:  B.Box Nappy Change Mat

HOTmilk Confidence is Radiance

HOTmilk Lingerie style in the Confidence is Radiance style has now sold out.  We have a few pairs of knickers left, but the nursing bras have sold out.

This was a particularly favourite style of mine, it was funky and a little different in terms of the pattern.  I loved the styling and the confident bold pose of the model.  That’s why I had used the image in a lot of my marketing ads.

We have had a HOTmilk sale with up to 60% off to clear out these styles, making way for the new ones… which are just as gorgeous!  The new HOTmilk lingerie styles are in the “ever after” series and the themed photos have fairy tale settings.

Just in time for Christmas

Our new summer stock of HOTmilk has arrived - just in time for Christmas.  Santa knows you've been a good girl, so just send hubby a hint of what you would like and your size.

I've got 100,000 metres of christmas gift wrap to get through too, so everything is going to be gift wrapped by default.

This was our first shipment of these styles, so stocks are LIMITED until the next shipment arrives next year.

Shop here:  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/maternity-lingerie.html

Summer PJs and Boxers

 

Baby Crying Leads to Movie

I just wrote an article about how one of my youtube videos has lead to a small role in an animated movie!!

Read here

Portable High Chair

We now have the versatile Snazzy Baby Deluxe Travel chair in stock.  It’s a fabric highchair with straps, that folds up small and can be used on any chair! So a perfect portable high chair.  See here

This is a great addition to our Starting Solids store section.

New HOTmilk in time for Christmas

The newest style of HOTmilk lingerie arrived today, and it is exquisite.  I don’t think the pictures are showing the full gorgeousness.  This is a hard one to photograph!

Just in time for Christmas

Order yours here

I've had a boob job

This is the Boob Job product that I’ve been trialing over the past few days.  Ideal for mums that have finished breastfeeding, and just feel like having a bit of lift and more oomph!!

I’m just a measly 10A myself, and I like the extra volume that these silicone inserts provide.  They mould to your shape, and lift, boost and va va voom. I would happily recommend them to other mothers.

Better Boob Job Takeouts 

 

Up to 50% off Mumcho Ponchos

We have a great range of Mumcho Breastfeeding Ponchos in lurvely fabrics!!  Grab a bargain as these are on sale for 5 days only.

 

Shop Here

 

Small Size Bras - Limited Edition

Our current range of HOTmilk lingerie (2009) catered for the smaller cup /body sizes.  These included 8A, 8B, 8C, 8D, 8DD, 8E, 8F, 10A, 12A, 14A, 16A, 16B

Though unfortunately I have the official word that HOTmilk won’t be including these smaller sizes in the new garments that are coming next week  View HOTmilk New Styles 2010

HOTmilk say "We will be starting from size 10B from now on. The demand just isn't there to warrant us doing size 8's or A cups for the minimums we have to commit to for manufacturing.”

So if you are a smaller cup size – I suggest you grab what you can while we still have it.    Go to our store and use the Search By Bra size to see what we have for you:  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/

Her Desire was Dangerous

She Embraced the Moment

Cherry Bomb Chic

YES HOTmilk bras can also be worn by women that are neither pregnant or feeding  - they make gorgeous soft cup bras, and I know it can often be difficult to find these in the smaller sizes.  I’m speaking from experience here as I am personally a measly 10A.

BNZ Global Plus

Dear customers

Please note that if you are a BNZ or Global Plus credit card holder, many websites will now require you to use the Verified by Visa system.  This is an additional security measure that the banks have in place for your security.  When you are on a shopping cart, after you enter your credit card number on the secure page, then the Verified by Visa picture may come up on your screen (such as the picture attached).

Though remember, if you are ever shopping on any website and you don’t feel comfortable with credit card options etc, then PHONE the company before you place the order. 

Online businesses such as Breastmates can process the transaction manually if you read out your card number over the phone.  This is the safest way if you are ever concerned about anything.

And just so you know about me, I actually enter the numbers while you are on the phone with me, I don’t even write them down on my note pad.

Now I just wish the banks would tell their customers that they have these security facilities active on the customers credit card!!

Breastmates Website

I got this wonderful email from a customer at 8.45pm tonight.  The only reason that I’m sharing it here is because at 9.10pm I got a phone call from someone that shook me up a bit.  But as @dom_sutton on twitter told me afterwards “u r learning that we can't get anywhere without pissing off some people & often it has little to do with you.”

 

So here are the nice words to finish on for today:

 

Kate R said “I will definitely be telling other people about your site, I wish I had known about it earlier!! It's easily the most simple, user friendly site I've come across for all things "mummy". The photos and videos of your products are great - really make you feel confident buying them online. I'm sure I will be back to buy more in the future too.”

 

So I can do something right after all!!

 

Happy Customer

And I also wanted to thank you for the nursing t-shirts and HOTmilk Nursing Bra, all of which I have used already. I honestly don't know why I didn't get them sooner. I went to playcentre on Friday and fed my baby in front of a group of people and I think it was the first time that I didn't feel self conscious. When I had my first son  I thought all the breastfeeding stuff was a bit frivolous, but it really makes a difference to how you feel I reckon. So anyway, just wanted to say thanks......these t-shirts will probably be worn to shreds and may have to look at getting more. I have a wedding in a few weeks, so might look at something for that.

 

Read more

 

 

HOTmilk Lingerie....

A preview of HOTmilk Lingerie styles that will be arriving shortly……

Pigeon Breast Pads

Pigeon Breast Pads now available online at Breastmates.  Number 1 voted breast pad!!

International Bra Sizes

I just made a new webpage that lists all international bra sizes, and has quick links so you can see what stock we have of HOTmilk lingerie in EU, FR, UK, USA, Asia, AU sizes!  It gets confusing!!

Spread the Mummy Love

Have you heard about Mums On Top?  It’s a great community for mums, and a very nice place to hang out online.  I've made some great contacts, both for business and personal.

Join up and please mention that Franny from Breastmates referred you  http://www.mumsontop.co.nz

Home Business

Here are some photos that my 5 year old son took, of me working at Breastmates

 

Glamourmom Extra Long Tanks - Coloured

Preorders now open Glamourmom Nursing Tanks

 

 

Haba

I was at the Parent and Child show over the weekend.  I wasn’t focused on selling product this year, I just wanted to take the time to talk to customers and introduce me and my brand. The good thing about writing this blog is that I can type it – I have absolutely no voice left!!!

I felt so proud having a stand and have really come full circle over the past 5 years, here is how:

• Year 1 – I visited the show with my friend Anna and we left our babies at home with their dads
• Year 2 – I visited the show with friend Anna, and put pamphlets on windscreens in the carpark (naughty and very tacky!!)
• Year 3- I had a small stand and tried to sell too many products.  My mum was a helper
• Year 4 – I had a small stand and tried to sell PJs and Nighties.  It was a rushed and chaotic experience and I couldn’t give customers the time they needed.
• Year 5 – Had a larger stand.  Did Christchurch and Auckland shows.  No products to sell just an online sale for 2 weeks after.  Friend Anna was a paid helper, (along with Kelly, Margo, and Jacquie).  Just have come full circle with Anna after we had visited the show together as spectators.

 It was also a great time to meet up with other business owners, it’s the closest thing that I have to a “work do”.

My neighbour at the stand was Lisa from www.bebabo.co.nz, it was a delight to meet her and share a few ideas.

She was kind enough to also give me a wooden Haba baby rattle, which I said I would put up on Facebook to do as a prize.  (so there you go, I’m sourcing new prizes for ya!!  More to come….)

Please do check out Lisa’s website and she has a store in Newmarket up near the warehouse.

First Day at School

Written at 9.12am

 

FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL

We dropped Lochie off at preschool as per normal, and then Angus ran through his old room at Treetown and said hi to all his friends.  It was a zooming run through visit because we didn’t want to be late for his first day at real school. 

 

So my boy and I drove together to primary school.  We were going to play on the monkey bars before the bell rang (as one of the preschool teachers had told me it would be a good idea to get to school early and play beforehand to get rid of a lot of his energy!).  But the bars were wet so we went into the classroom together and looked at all the children’s artwork.

Teacher started a morning song for Mat Time, and about 2 minutes later I went up to Angus who was sitting on the edge of the mat and said “I’m going to go now”.  He said “okay bye mum”

 

Gave him a wave through the window, he had a great big grin.

 

We now have a school boy.

 

I thought it was going to be a lot more difficult than that, he is a sensitive wee chap but is obviously ready for this change

 

They have to be picked up today at 2pm cos of some teacher meeting, so lucky I have flexible work hours!

 

Avent Sale

Breast pump and sterliser set, just about giving it away.

 

http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/Breast-Pumps/Manual-Breast-Pumps/Natural_Beginnings_Gift_Set.html

 

Breastfeeding & Ministry of Health

I’m involved with the Ministry of Health’s “Breastfeeding Campaign” in New Zealand.  You might have seen some of the adverts on TV and in magazines.

 

The next phase of their project is using social media, and creating a 2-way communication with NZ mothers.  The emphasis is that breastfeeding is a normal part of life.

 

It would be fantastic if you could please spread the word to your contacts, and come and join yourself. 

 

The page has just started (after weeks of discussion and approvals!)  http://www.facebook.com/pages/Breastfeeding-NZ/193386893968

 

(Its nothing commercial though)

HOTmilk Free Promo

HOTmilk and Breastmates have a great promo starting on the 15^th of October.

If you buy two bras and two knickers (from the HOTmilk range) you can choose from a FREE maternity nightie or a FREE Camisole Set . 

For more information on our free HOTmilk promo check our webpage here;  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/press_releases/HOTmilk_Promo.html

HOTmilk New Styles Soon

HOTmilk sold out in your size? .... That's because we have some gorgeous new styles coming soon.  Expected Due Date is late November or early December.

HOTmilk introduce new styles each season, and they are limited in number.  The styles are never repeated!  So whatever you buy will be special.

The new season lingerie is just yum yum yum!  The photograph themes are Fairytales, and here is a sample of a very sexy Little Red Riding Hood.  This is a deep purple bra with so much design in the support!!

There will be 4 new maternity bra styles, a new nightie, and a new maternity PJ set.

Make sure that you Join Up to our newsletter to be notified when this new stock is ready for purchase. 

 

Philips Baby Monitor on Sale

We have the Philips Avent Dect baby monitors on sale.  Usually $250, now $170.  this is thanks to a great discount that we are passing on directly from the supplier.

These are of course fab baby monitors, no interference, adjustable volume, and a compact listening unit so that you can take it with you around the house and garden etc.

You can order here:  Baby Monitor

Interesting Day

Well its been a whirlwind few days since I found out that I won the Supreme Small Business Award (details here)

I drove up to Auckland and had a very interesting 2 hour meeting at the airport with some people that had flown up from Wellington to meet me.  It was so nice and refreshing driving 90 minutes each way in a car with no children, and no children’s music. 

  V.v.v Exciting.  More details to follow shortly.  I will be needing your help

Real Mothers Talk about Breastfeeding

My new goal of running my Breastmates website is to prepare people with the truth – and not unrealistically high expectations.  And to provide support for whichever way they choose to feed their baby.

I just hope people can find the information they need, and I’m trying to get the support for them!

The following is a list of stories that real mothers have shared with us.  I have only removed their names and have not edited any other information.

If you would like to share a couple of paragraphs about anything baby related, please email me. 

 

Ad: Your Story Wanted Please
Are my Breasts Still Making Milk?
Auckland Lactation Consultant
Baby Friendly NZ or Tokyo
Baby not getting enough
Baby not getting enough
Bottle Feeding Tips
Breastfeeding a Baby in Hospital
Breastfeeding is a B i t c h
Breastfeeding Shouldnt Hurt
Breastfeeding Through Mental Illness
Breastfeeding Tips from Lydia
Clicking while feeding
Cluster Feeding
Constipated on Formula
Demand Feeding
Drink Lots of Water to Make Milk
Get a Lactation Consultant
Get Baby Used to a Bottle
Hard to Start
Honest Breastfeeding Tips
Lactation Consultant
Mastitis and Probiotics
Milk brings on reflux and colic
Negative Feeding Experiences
Newborn and Toddler
Nursing with Large Breasts
Postnatal Depression
Raynauds Syndrome
Stressful Breastfeeding to Start With
Switching to Formula
Tongue Tie
When to Start a Bottle

Newborn Baby Questions

I’ve been writing a few little articles about life with a newborn baby.  Just a dollop of good honest sound advice!

Baby Layette
Baby Poo
Best Way to Help with New Baby
Birth Control
Coming Home with a New Baby
Essential Baby Buys
Feeding Baby with a Cold
How to Swaddle Baby
Nappies
Post Natal Depression
Sounds of Hungry Baby
Starting Solids
Tummy Time
What to Pack in your Nappy Bag

 

Buying a Breast Pump

Here is a recent list of articles that I’ve been writing about breast pumps, and buying breast pumps online NZ

Avent Uno Trouble Shooting
Basic Expressing Instructions
Breast Pumps & Bottle Choices
Breastfeeding and Working
Breastmilk Storage
Expressing Breast Milk
Flush out Breast Pump
How to Express Breast Milk
Medela Pump Trouble Shooting
Noises of Breast Pumps
Rental Breast Pumps
Returning to Work
Swing Breast Pump Recommendation
Swing vs Uno
Which Breast Pump to Buy?

 

Breastfeeding Artciles

This is a summary of recent articles that I’ve been writing about Breastfeeding.  Just a dollop of good sound advice!

Baby Biting while Breastfeeding
Baby Rejecting Breast
Benefits of Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding After C-Section
Breastfeeding Rights
Breastfeeding Tips
Breastfeeding Video
How long does breastfeeding take?
How Much Milk Does Baby Drink?
Latching for Breastfeeding
Leaking Boobs
Learning how to Breastfeed
Signs of Mastitis

HOTmilk

Here are a few recent posts that I’ve written about our gorgeous range of HOTmilk nursing bras and lingerie.  You can buy them online!
Bra Fitting Problems
Bra Size Calculator
Bra Sizes for Different Countries
Bra Sizes What the Numbers Mean
HOTmilk Bras
HOTmilk Saucy Video
How Many Maternity Bras
Man's HOTmilk Buying Guide
When to get a Maternity Bra
Why wear a Maternity Bra?

 

Small Business Winner

Just found out this morning that I won the Small Business Prize  (The David Awards)

 

I was the joint winner in the Innovated Use of Marketing Section

 

But then I also  won the overall Supreme Award out of all the other section winners.  So happy!!!!   

 

There are a few videos from the judges here, you have to choose the section you want to view on the right hand side.  The last one on the list is the Supreme winner announcement.   http://thedavidawards.co.nz/winners2009.html

HOTmilk Bra Design Features

HOTmilk always ensures the following standards are met for every bra they design: No underwire. This is because underwires can restrict the growth changes in breast size and shape during pregnancy, and restrict milk flow during breast feeding. Soft cotton linings ensure absolute comfort and support. Seam construction ensures no rubbing or chaffing. This is important especially in the cup as the nipple area can be very tender. Easy maternity clips which you can use with one hand as you will probably not have both hands free at the time. Strong power elastane in the back panels for extra support. This type of fabric ensures you get the best fit. Wider bra straps and back adjusters for larger sizes. Larger cup sizes must have the best support possible especially at the breast feeding stage as the breasts will be heavier. 6 rows of eyes at the back provides expansion in the diaphragm. Fabrics and laces are carefully chosen to provide maximum support and comfort. Exquisite matching underwear Beautiful feminine styling in line with European trends and we make sure every attention to detail is met.   You can order all of the HOTmilk Bra styles from our webstore, we ship worldwide and can help you find what you need. Visit our store here:

 

Breast Cancer

This is the latest Breast Cancer advert that I saw in a recent magazine.  It is quite a shocking advert, but I like it.  I think it shows perfectly the intimacy of breastfeeding,  the loss when mothers cant breastfeed, and it highlights that breast cancer can affect young mothers too.  Not just older ladies – which is a very good point to make to me in particular.  I always just think of it happening to older women, not people my age. 

 

It made me feel very very sad seeing this picture, but the marketing aspect worked because it really got my attention.

Spiderman's pet snails

Spiderman is home with me today, and we have a new collection of pet snails.... Spiders were to scary for him to catch.

Don't worry, no snails escaped into the knicker orders when I was packing parcels :-)

Buy online with Credit Card

We now have our own secure page to process credit cards directly, so don’t need to use Paypal anymore.

If you are shopping for maternity products online at Breastmates, just choose if you want to pay with credit card, internet banking, or cheque when you get to the Shopping Cart section.

Most people prefer to pay with their credit card, but there are still a few customers that like to use banking or mail a cheque.  That’s absolutely fine.  It will just take an extra day or two for your payment to be confirmed and for me to send out your order.

Protected Now

You may think it is fairly obvious that I ask people not to copy my website text or images.  But I now have to state this on every single page of my website, so you'll have to excuse the COPYSCAPE logo which is now on each page of my website.  I need to make it really obvious to these people that steal my IP.

The vast majority of product descriptions that you read on my website are my own words, that I use to personalize my store, because I know about the products I sell.  And of course the articles are all my own words, unless a guest author has contributed something for me - and then it is clearly stated.  Some of the images are provided by suppliers, but I then edit them to suit my own website layout which takes alot of time to do all that.  So its not nice when someone just copies them all from me!

I've now had THREE occasions where I've had to contact competitor businesses to notify them I was aware they had copied my stuff.  It is so easy for me to find copied pages using web tools!

From now on, I'm going to send a cease and desist letter when this happens and I will contact their website host to notify them of the copying.

Breastmates Newsletter

Thank goodness Daylight Savings has started here in NZ. Every year I have good intentions of re-programming my children so that they adjust to a new bed time beforehand but it never happens. So just remember that you're not alone when your children won't go to sleep. (My eldest has only just shut his eyes!!)

Thanks for checking out my new website recently, and all your feedback. If you do happen to find any spelling mistakes please let me know! I am really focusing on Breastmates for Boob and Bottle Feeding support for you as well as a store. So if you do have a story or some tips you would like to share with other parents, please contact me.

Please take advantage of Free Delivery on all orders over $100 (for a limited time)

Breastfeeding Clothes now in stock for summer. Choose from over 10 different styles - with subtle openings for nursing. You'll see little demonstrations that show how they open, colour comparisons, plus measuring guides. But don't worry if you're not happy, just send back and I can sort out an exchange or refund for you.

Mumcho Ponchos are reduced by 50% in some styles. The fabrics are just gorgeous, and they make breastfeeding easy in public.

There's quite a few new items in stock for you, from stainless steel reminder bracelets, comfy maternity undies and more. Take a look at this page to see everything new. There are also a few bargains to find on our sale page such as the Avent Sterilizer for $60. (Sale items cannot be exchanged).

Are you a member on my Facebook Page? Don't miss out on the random giveaways I've been doing. The other week women were sharing stories about their ugliest bra, it was really funny reading! A random winner got a lovely new set of lingerie for free.

Speaking of lingerie, will have some exclusive news to share with you next month.....

Do you know about Kids New Zealand Directory? It's a resource for all Kiwi families full of info on family things and discounts. They are looking for great photos of kiwi kids to include in the Directory. If you have a photo of your child that you'd like to be considered for publication please click here.

 

Breastmates is a finalist in the David Awards for Small Business 2009. It was a worthwhile task just doing the application as I had to sit down and assess my business, so exciting news to be a finalist. Thank you to each and everyone who knows about my little website. Will find out on 7th October.

 

Thanks for reading, and enjoy your BBQ season

 

Franny

Orders from Russia

My friend Mr Google told me about this comment someone had made about Breastmates today.  I was interested enough to look, but it was all in Russian.  So found a free translation thing.  I think some of the actual text got lost in translation, like "Kangaroo" instead of Australian.  Funny!

I've been sending HOTmilk everywhere! 


Breastmates

Finalist in Business Awards

I just got a very cool email, I'm a finalist in the David Awards

" Hi there Frances

Congratulations! Breastmates is a finalist in The David Awards 2009: heroes in small business "

Maternity Knickers

Maternity Briefs:  these are the most comfortable knickers I've ever worn and I'm not even pregnant. No VPL*  No PUC* No builders crack.  Perfect Fit Undies were originally designed for pregnant mothers to wear, as comfortable maternity knickers.  They are excellent to wear at any time – not just pregnancy.  Comfortable, enough coverage without showing builders crack, but not Nana Style.  You will be very impressed.

 

View more information and order here  Maternity Knickers  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/Maternity-Lingerie/Knickers/Perfect_Fit_Undies.html

 

*Defintions VPL = Visible Panty Line

* PUC = Panties up Crack.  When your knickers ride up

 

Nursing Clothes - New

Breastfeeding Clothing for summer is now in stock.  At our Maternity Store “Breastmates” we have over 10 different designs of breastfeeding tops for nursing, which are in summer designs.

A customer asked me today, which ones I would recommend for post-partum tummies, and which are more flattering for lumps and bumps on bellies.  I suggest these styles below.

View our range of Nursing Clothes

Free Delivery

For a limited time only, if you spend over $100 at our Maternity Store  your shopping cart will automatically get free delivery.

 

You like?

 

 

 

Breastfeeding Tops

Breastfeeding Tops for summer are now in stock, we received a huge delivery today and have been busy unloading and preparing the website.

There are lots of gorgeous styles of nursing tops available, to suit most tastes.

Some are also suitable as maternity tops!

Take a look at our store here:  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/Nursing-Clothing/Short-Sleeve.html

Baby Sunscreen

Baby sunscreen is now in stock, made from safe ingredients with no artificial fragrance or colour.

This baby sunscreen is SPF 15, so delicate but protective.

 

You can order it here at our online store:  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/baby-gear/skin-care.html

 

My second son has very light pale skin, and reddish tints in his hair, so I use this sunscreen every day.

Buying Bras Online

Here is some feedback that I received today from a customer that has regularly purchased HOTmilk bras at my online store.

She says “Just to let you know I appreciate your website because it can be difficult finding sizes and spending time searching the shops with little one in tow only to be disappointed. Going through all those pregnancy changes it is great being able to measure and then send away for the right size, it only takes minutes. I am also very happy with the comfort and quality of your product.”

 

Baby Poo

Well the time has come, I have finally succumbed to writing about poo.

Read my latest article that describes newborn baby poo (for breastfed babies and bottle fed babies) including some photos that I’m sharing!

 

http://www.breastmates.co.nz/newborn_baby/Baby_Poo.html

 

Moby Wrap

Due to a lot of requests, we are now stocking the Moby Wrap.

 

These are a really comfortable way to carry your baby, its just like having a cuddle but keeping your arms free. 

 

Baby’s weight is distributed over your back and shoulders.

 

You can order your Moby Wrap here:  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/Baby-Gear/Slings/Moby_Wraps.html

 

Engorged Breasts

what they look like and how to treat This photo shows perfectly what an engorged breast looks like, compared to a normal breastfeeding breast. You can see that one boob (the one of the left) is very full and rounded. Its like it has a huge silicone implant, although it is actually just full of milk. This would be really painful! You can see in the photo, how the breast on the left is full and is very round. its sitting higher than the empty breast on the right hand side. The treatment we suggested was a hot shower and massage just to ease out a little of the milk from the engorged breast. Then she tried some heat packs. If the pain had been unbearable for her, then she could have expressed some milk out with a breast pump. But remember this important thing I am going to tell you: if you express milk to relieve the pressure, it will also mean that your breasts will make more milk ready for a few hours time, which just would have repeated the engorgement problem later in the day. Using a breast pump to relieve engorged breasts should really be a last case resort, because your breasts will make milk depending on the volume that is being withdrawn, as if baby were drinking. We do have lots of remedies, equipment and help for breastfeeding at our webstore Breastmates- you can view the store here: Breastmates Store And Breastfeeding Advice

HOTmilk Video

HOTmilk have made this great wee video…. She is pregnant and sexy.

And will confirm that no computer-generated bellies are used in their modeling shots!

You can view the video here:  http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk_lingerie/HOTmilk_Saucy_Video.html

and you can buy HOTmilk style here http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/Maternity-Lingerie/Nursing-Bras/HOTmilk_Bra_Her_Radiance.html

 

 

 

Pregnant Belly at 39 Weeks

Because I was having a planned c-section for my second baby (due to complications first time round) we knew the date and time to be at the hospital.

This really is a picture of me and bump waiting to get ready for theatre. (39 weeks pregnant)

Yes it really was the baby, not a ball.

My second pregnancy my tummy was a lot more compact, but my baby was actually bigger. He was 8 pounds 5 ounces. I had a lot of back pain during this pregnancy as the baby was so close to my back!

Its handy having an online maternity store when I’m a mum!

Hotmilk Bra

Feedback about Hotmilk Bra that I received today:

 

From: (name deleted for privacy) Davidson
Sent: Wednesday, 9 September 2009 2:11 p.m.

 

Hi Frances,
 
I received my Hotmilk Bra today and am absolutely thrilled with it. I will have to buy another one in the not too distant future.
Thanks for all your help. I will definately be telling people about Breastmates.
 
Kind Regards
V

 

Nappies

Even though I don't sell nappies (just nappy creams and diaper bags at my online store) people seem to ask me questions about them.   Probably because they know that I'm a mum and that I'll answer their enquiry. Regardless of whether you use cloth nappies or disposable nappies, the main thing that the nappies are easy to use, and do not leak.  You are going to be changing nappies every 3 or 4 hours. When baby is newborn, you'll get into the routine of feeding from one breast, burping, change nappy, and then feeding from the other breast.   So that will be around 4 hourly during the feeding cycle - and extra if they poop. When they start sleeping through the night, luckily nappy changing frequency will reduce.  And when they get older too, the time is reduced.  But there will be a lot of nappies!!!!  For a couple of years!!!!!  That thought was daunting to me when I was a new mum! With my first son I used cloth nappies (I am a greenie after all).  With cloth nappies, things have been modernised nowadays so you don't need big flat squares nor pins.  These days its all about convenience and ease of use. Nappies have really been re-invented now with improvements in fabrics and snap systems rather than pins. There are a couple of systems you can go for: Breathable waterproof overnap, which you put  in Prefolds (folded up absorbent cotton layers) Pocket Nappy  (which you stuff with absorbent prefolds) All-in-One  (this has the waterproof layer and the absorbent layer all sewed together.  This one looks most like a disposable, but they do take longer to dry. There are a number of different brands available, and it can get quite confusing when you are researching.  But all the nappy options and brands will come down to the 3 functions that i described above. A great place to do research is http://www.thenappynetwork.org.nz  This website also has a really good forum with thousands of helpful mums to answer your questions. I personally used Overnaps with prefolds on the inside, and also Pocket Nappies.  I liked the Pocket Nappies as the brand that I used could be adjusted to fit from birth to toddler. A good store that I would love to recommend to you is Pippa's http://www.snazzipants.co.nz  (if you visit her online or store please tell her that Breastmates referred you!) When my second son was born, the advantage of cloth nappies is that I could reuse them all again and not have to purchase.  But when he was born, my business got a lot busier, and I struggled to keep up with my normal washing let alone nappies too.  So I use a mix of cloth and disposables.  So just like breast vs boob, and cloth vs disposable I've done both :-)

 

Candles By Design

I was recently informed about a fantastic website called candlesbydesign.  Actually the store owner Brigitte emailed me, as we had a mutual contact with Verve Eastside Magazine in Auckland.  She wrote me a very complimentary email, and so the least I can do is a promotion on my blog for her! 

 

Check out her gorgeous website, you will be as surprised as me!

 

The special candle website  is http://www.candlesbydesign.co.nz

 

If you visit please tell Brigitte that you were referred by Breastmates

Feeding baby with a cold

It can be a really difficult time if your darling new baby has a cold.  When babies are healthy, they can breathe through their nose while continuing to suck and nurse at the breast (or bottle).  This is a natural instinct that babies are born with, but they will grow out of it.  (have you ever tried to breathe and swallow at the same time - not possible!) So when a baby has a cold, their sinus can be blocked up.  This means that they won't remain latched on at the breast for a long time, because they will need to breathe through their mouth.  You may find that baby will take a few sucks, then come off the latch. (and milk might squirt as your letdown continues!).  This will mean that it will take longer to feed your baby, they could get very impatient as they are obviously hungry but can't get to their milk fast enough. A few tears and stress too! Doctors often suggest getting Saline Drops.  If you squirt a few up baby's nose just before a feed, then the liquid helps to loosen the mucus.  Then when baby is feeding, it forces the mucus to clear and go down the back of their throat.  And sometimes you might get a a snot deposit on your boob! Your baby may also be very noisy and snuffley. The stop-start feeding motion may also mean that you feel a little engorged.  But it is really important that you empty your breast after feeding.  The breast that does not get fully emptied after the feed will be the one that you offer first to baby next time. Some parents also get room vapourisers, or they might put a little dash of "Vicks" on the baby's pillowcase to help breathing also. If your baby's cold doesn’t improve within 24 hours, then I would suggest you talk to your doctor or midwife. For more breastfeeding help please refer to our website Breastmates

 

25% Off Hotmilk

From today until Sunday night, we have a 25% discount on HOTmilk lingerie.

This is a great way to pick up a bargain!!

It applies to all the styles – as shown here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/store/maternity-lingerie.html

Hitwise Top 10 Website Award

Twice a year, Hitwise awards the 10 most popular websites across some of our 160+ categories.

From January - June, 2009, www.breastmates.co.nz was ranked #3 in the Hitwise New Zealand 'Shopping and Classifieds - Intimate Apparel and Accessories' industry based on monthly average market share.

This ranking relates to New Zealand based users visiting New Zealand websites.

 

Breastmates Relaunches Today

1 September 2009   my latest press release....

Boob or Bottle?

New Zealand webstore Breastmates.co.nz has relaunched this week, with the focus to provide real information for parents on infant feeding.

Breastmates was created from scratch in 2004 by Frances McInnes, who has slowly developed the brand herself over the past few years to become a Specialty Baby Feeding Store with an extensive range of products for pregnant and new mothers.

Frances noted there was a lack of resources for mothers in New Zealand on baby feeding issues, and that it could often be difficult for people to get advice for their situation.

Frances has taken it upon her self to fill this void. Frances is a mother who has both breast and bottle fed her two children, and has been told that customers like her “non-militant non-judgmental” stance on breastfeeding.

After considerable time and investment, Breastmates relaunches this week as a useful resource for parents as well as an online shopping site. “I wanted my website to consist of honest information to prepare people with the truth – and not unrealistically high expectations. I can be the person that tells you ‘yes breastfeeding is hard, but if you can’t do it then forget the guilt trip ”

Breastmates will now fill the need for information on infant feeding, and provides a balance between breast and bottle feeding.

There are over 250 articles on relevant topics including videos, photographs and demonstration contributed from an extensive network of midwives, specialists, as well as mothers sharing their experiences.

Frances hopes that she will be able to reach more people with her new website, and help them “just a little bit” during what can often be stressful times.

www.breastmates.co.nz

Birth Control

Breastfeeding is sometimes used as a method of birth control. But only if baby is exclusively breastfeed (i.e nothing other than breastmilk is given to your child) Only if baby is under six month’s of age Only if mother’s menstrual cycle has not yet started back again after labour This method is not 100% reliable. You could still get pregnant even if you are breastfeeding as ovulation can occur before your period starts back. A more reliable method of birth control is the "mini-pill" contraceptive prescribed by your doctor which is a progestogen-only pill . Avoid contraceptive pills containing oestrogen while you are breastfeeding. For more information, you may be best to speak with your doctor or midwife.  A midwife can usually prescribe contraception (pills and condoms) while you are still under her care, when baby is under six months.

 

Avent Sterilizers on Sale

Avent Microwave sterilizers are on sale for a limited time.

Usually $80 we now have them for $60, so grab a bargain

Relaunch of Website

Hi

I’m just testing a new feature on my blog, which will hopefully be a great addition to my new website

Breastmates

Relaunch of my little website is expected to be happening in about 4 hours time. I’m so excited. Just got to get kids dinner and bedtime over with and then I can start.

Breastmates

well for the past 9 or 10 months, I have been working towards a whole new website with the help of Lynny and Kym. I just outgrew my old one.

I got this hilarious email from Lynny today, it was a nice surprise as I didn't know when our actual launch date would be:

Pack your bags for the hospital, I predict you will have your first contraction at about 3pm today your time, and baby will arrive at approx 8.25 pm tonight.

This new baby is referring to my new website

So excited!!

HOTmilk Customer

A repeat customer recently put this little message at the bottom of her order.

I love your range and always great service. I love the way you wrap your garments as you package them. Makes it all feel so special!!

Live Competition Draw

So to make a change from all these messages that I sit here typing, I thought I would do a live video draw. I'm giving away three tickets for the Christchurch Parent and Child show, being held on 22 and 23 August 2009.

Bit goofy, but a bit of fun.

Please also note, that if you are visiting the show, I will not be taking products to sell.... but still come and say hi as it will be worth your while with the samples....!!


Winners are Karen Stephens, Amanda Henriksen, Sarah Henderson

Congrats!

Christchurch Parent and Child Show

I am going to Christchurch next weekend! Yippee!!

This is for the Parent and Child Show

When: 22 and 23 August 2009 10am to 5pm

Where: Westpac Arena Christchurch

Come and say hi to me! I'm taking some samples to the show, but will not actually be selling any product.

You can get a voucher to use at our webstore though, so you can get a bargain on anything you choose online!

Extended Breastfeeding

An extreme example of extended breastfeeding.

To be viewed with a little humour!!

Grown man still breastfeeding, and enjoying some Boobie Juice. Watch how this grown man still nurses from his mother. This was actually a comedy skit that screened on TV last night. I just thought it was funny. No offense intended.

Lactation Consultant Auckland

A friend of mine recently sent me this email, rather appropriate I think:


"I think I ended up with the best lactation consultant ever! I had mastitis on and off for the first 4 months of my first boy, and then this time I got Trish to help me out - she got my large milk supply completely under control and has taught me how to deal with blocked ducts. She does home consulations and clinic Trish Warder (Mobile xx). Also she is really practical and helps out with what is best for you!"

I haven't put her mobile phone number on this blog post just for privacy reasons with weirdos. But if you are in Auckland and trying to find a lactation consultant, just let me know and I can refer you.

FREE HOTmilk

HOTmilk knickers are now free!

Yes that's right, this sure is a recession-busting promotion.

Buy a HOTmilk bra (quite a necessity when you are a nursing mum) and we'll give you the matching knickers for free, so that you are treated to a gorgeous matching lingerie set.

This is for a very limited time only. While stocks last.

Only applies to the 3 moulded cup styles of bras.

Shop for HOTmilk online at our website and we can send these right to your door, anywhere.

Hotmilk Bra - New Style

If you liked the fabulous Age of Allure bra by HOTmilk you are going to love the new Her Radiance style. This is due out in early July and will be a sexy addition to our nursing lingerie collection. This nursing bra is a new and improved supportive design which will be very popular! If you haven't already put in your preorder for this HOTmilk bra then don't delay!!

milkMAN competition

HOTmilk have announced the winner of the "milkman boxers" competition they were running. His name is Keegs, from New Zealand. He won in a landslide vote to become Hotmilk's first milkMAN. He has won $5000 USD travel, what a lucky guy!

There certainly were a few cute guys that entered!

Also just a reminder, that you only have to buy one set of our HOTmilk lingerie (bra + knicker) or one sleepwear item to get your guy a free pair of the milkMAN boxers, worth $29.95. While stocks last.

Start shopping!! http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk.htm

Raynauds Syndrome and Nipple Vasospasms

What is Raynaud's? is a condition when blood vessels spasm and constrict in body extremities such as nipples. When Reynaud's Phenomenon causes nipple vasospam, the nipple turns white and there is usually a noticeable change in colour from white to blue to red, as blood flow returns.

It can occur during pregnancy and at times related to feeding. Cold temperatures typically trigger the vasospasm and make it worse. It is a very painful experience.

One common treatment is to keep the breast and nipples warm.

We have a wonderful new product, Breastwarmers, which are purposely designed for mothers that suffer from nipple vasospasms. The Breastwarmers reflect your body heat, which can help ease the pain. Plus they can also absorb milk leaks, and are reusable breast pads.

Breastwarmers can be used by women with Raynaud’s Phenomenon, to boost milk supply due to the warmth that is provided to milk ducts, and to help with let-down or expressing. They can also be worn by women that suffer from nipple vasospasm (chilled nipples) who are not breastfeeding.


For more information about this product, and to order, please view our main webstore here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/breastwarmers.html

Nursing Necklace

I've got these fab new Nursing Necklaces in stock, which are the ideal thing to use when you have a "nosey" baby that you are trying to breastfeed or bottle feed. You know how babies get distracted with noise (and other siblings), turn their head, and pull. And Don't drink their milk?

Well this little necklace is a nursing necklace pendant that mum wears. baby can focus on the colour contrast, touch and feel, and just keep drinking their milk!

Nursing necklaces are a nifty little invention! Plus because it is made from safe materials etc, it can also double as a chewable interest too (after you've finished feeding)

You can order your HeartString Nursing Necklace from Breastmates

Baby Wont Take a Bottle - Solution

Baby Won't Take a Bottle:

Some feedback from a happy customer, I bet this mum is very relieved!!

I bought a ChuChu teat off you the other day.. I have been battling - and i mean battling, since my little girl was 3 weeks old for her to take a bottle. She is now nearly four months and FINALLY she will take some expressed milk thanks to the Chu Chu. Wish I had heard about it earlier as in my cupboard I have every bottle and teat known to man!! Thanks so much, Kate

You can learn more about this fantastic teat, and how it works for babies on our webstore here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/chu_chu_teats.html

Breastfeeding DVD

A DVD about breastfeeding is currently in development and will be available in New Zealand to every pregnant woman in their third trimester from about November 2009.

In the DVD, a number of New Zealand mothers will talk about their experiences of breastfeeding. The DVD, which will have input from breastfeeding experts, will provide a useful tool for mothers (as well as partners and family/whānau) wanting to know more about the rewards and challenges of breastfeeding. While it will be modelled on the structure and information in the British DVD From Bump to Breastfeeding, the DVD will present an entirely New Zealand perspective.

Very cool - we like this

Extract from http://breastfeeding.org.nz/sites/feedingourfutures.org.nz/files/newsletter/2009_05/bsmcu006.html

Medela Power Adapter

Yes we do sell the Adapters for the Medela breast pumps.

Though please note that if you have travelled from overseas and would like to use your breast pump in New Zealand you must purchase a power adapter first!!! We have these at our store Breastmates.

IF you use the Breast Pump in NZ with your overseas adaptor it could damage the inside of your motor due to our different power frequency.

If you have tried to use it in NZ already, the motor will be broken already.

So get the medela pump adapter first!!

http://www.breastmates.co.nz/medela_spare_parts.html

Belly Bra Tummy Support

A lady had some questions about the BellyBra we sell at our online store.

"I was referred by my midwife to buy a belly bra as I have a lot of trouble with my pelvis
as this is also my fouth pregnancy. I am only four months and already I am feeling the
problems. Will the belly bra carry me right through my pregnancy? I am usually a size
14-16 pre-pregnancy. "

I’m sorry to hear about the trouble you have been having with your pelvis. I had the same problem with my second son and personally found the belly bra great!!! It really does support your back and belly.

Yes the BellyBra will take you right through your pregnancy, and will allow for growth as your belly grows too.

These are available http://www.breastmates.co.nz/belly_bra_pregnancy_support.html

Ireland Orders

A customer in Ireland wrote to tell me"

Hi, My order arrived this morning to the west of Ireland and I am thrilled with it, I got 2 Hot Milk bras and a breastfeeding black top. I love them all and feel a million dollars in them! Thank you very much

To view our full range of HOTmilk and Breastfeeding tops too, see our selection on our website http://www.breastmates.co.nz/ we can ship them anywhere in the world at affordable rates.

Bras for Bigger Breasts

Another customer who recently purchased some HOTmilk Lingerie wrote back to tell me

"I'll definitely mention you to my friends - the stuff you buy in shops is terrible quality, especially for bigger breasts!"

The HOTmilk bras that we stock are top quality, and we have them available in all cup sizes including A, B, C, D, DD, E, F, FF, and G.

To view our selection go to our website here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk.htm

Breastfeeding Hoodies

A customer recently purchased a nice breastfeeding hoodie, which is great for winter.

She wrote back:

Just wanted to say THANKYOU very much for your excellent service!! Speedy delivery!! My breastfeeding hoodie arrived yesterday morning and fits perfectly, excellent top!!
I have passed on your website details to my coffee group, friends and family. Hopefully more business will be coming your way.
I will definitely be a customer of yours again, if not for myself then I will certainly shop for gifts.
Thanks again Frances – much appreciated!!!

Breastfeeding Singlets for Winter

A customer recently asked me this question about our selection of breastfeeding singlets, suitable to be worn in winter.

Which of your products do you recommend more – the hot milk cammie, or the breast feeding singlet. Just want to put something underneath my tops, so I don’t need to bare all over the winter. Is it ok to wear your bf bras under these singlets?




For the purpose she had described I would actually recommend the Glamourmum tops the most. They are nice and fitted, and are a slim design so they are the perfect undergarment for nursing. Yes you can still wear bras under these aswell. The Glamourmum tops are really suitable to wear under most clothing, whereas the hotmilk cammie wouldn't be ideal under fitted tops in my opinion.

View our full selection here http://www.breastmates.co.nz/clothing.htm

HOTmilk in States

This is some feedback from a customer in the States that was recently purchasing on our website. She was looking at the HOTmilk lingerie range, we have this on display for sale here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk.htm

I'm hoping I love the fit of the bras as much as I love the look. This is my second baby and I refuse to wear the ugly nursing bras this time!

Breast Feeding Tops

Some feedback I just received from a customer that had purchased some breastfeeding tops from our website. It was overnight delivery too.

You can see our full section of breast feeding tops here

The two tops arrived today. I just wanted to drop you an email to let you know I am very impressed with them - they are a wonderful quality of fabric and made very well. They are very stylish and the wrap-over design is very flattering to post-baby figures! I am very happy with my purchase & will be spreading the word!
Katrina

Philips Avent - WIN

Thanks to my lovely friends at Philips Avent i have this stunning Nappy Bag to give away!

Simply purchase ANY Philips Avent product between now and the end of July, and I will automatically put you in the draw.

Its a limited edition bag, ideal for day trips. Limited edition cherry red colour.

This offer is EXCLUSIVE to breastmates!!

So to check out the Philips Avent range of products that we have for breast and bottle feeding, check out our website: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/

Baby Bottle and Formula - When you are Out

I asked a question on my facebook page the other day about how mothers do the whole formula feeding, storage, transportation when they are out and about. There is very little information about how to actually do bottle feeding, because I think health professionals are so worried about breaking the code on WHO breastfeeding rules. But surely people should be told how to feed formula and how to store bottles when you go out, you wouldnt want babies to get sick from drinking formula that was stored wrong etc would you? No one would carry around a warm bottle of cow milk rather than putting it in the fridge right?!

So here is what happened on my facebook page (which you can join here)

I wrote "Hi, I am doing mum-research today. If are formula feeding and you go out, how do you take your powder and water? There are many different ways, please share how you do it? eg. powder in a container & hot water that cools by the time you need it. or Powder and water mixed and kept cool, then you warm it. ... etc "

Reply 1: I'm not a formula feeder, but those I know all seem to bring bottles of pre-boiled water and measured powder separately. Everyone seems to mix the powder into the water before or without heating.

Reply 2: I use a Thermos every day, fill it up with my morning cuppa and it will do a day of feeds, saves power time and is easy if i have to go out i just chuck it in the nappy bag with the powder in a bottle then add hot and cold as i need.

Reply 3: ziplock bag of premeasured powder, bottle of cooled boiled water. and fed to baby at room temp.

Reply 4: Phil & Ted's offers a bottle that holds the water and formula seperatey, and all you have to do is twist it a bit to mix the 2.. its prety cool. But if your baby is fussy on their botle teat, it may not work well for you.

Reply 5: That is one cool bottle! I breast and formula feed. When we go out I will take a bottle of pre mix and another bottle of then boiling water and formula seperate.

Reply 6: I had a Phil and Ted one and it was Crap!! the water and formula NEVER mixed properly. It always leaked. I should have taken it back but unfortunitely got it at a show and couldn't remember the name of the store I purchased it from. I don't recommend it!! You know there aren't many resources out there for formula feeding, considering how many there, are so good on you for posing the question!

Reply 7: I fill my bottles up with pre-boiled water and have a formula dispenser which holds 3 lots of measured powder then add to bottle when a feed is needed :)

Reply 8: Take them out mixed and frosty. He likes his milk cold!

Reply 9: I take powder and get water from cafe :)

Reply 10: I take boiled water in a bottle in a drawstring thermos pouch and then when it's at the right temp and bubs is hungry then I add the formula. I take the forumula in a tomee tippee container which has 3 separate compartments and you just turn the lid and tip it out. If it's a bit hot and bubs is really hungry then I just add some cold water from a cafe. I exclusively breastfed for 5 months and then had to top up with formula from then on. I had to switch to fully formula fed at 9 months. I thought it was going to be a huge hassle going out and about formula feeding instead of the instantly breastfeeding. But it hasn't been too bad at all. :-) You do what is best for you and baby and this is what works for us.

Reply 11: Oh boy - sounds like a lot of hassle to me!! Glad mine is all attached, mixed and just the right temperature when required :-)

So there you go. Hopefully if you find this blog post, it is because you need information, and I have hopefully answered it for yoU!!

View my main website here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz

Nature's Child Breast Pads

Coming soon, Breastmates will be stocking the Nature's Child range of certified organic products. Including baby wipes, wraps, and lovely soft breast pads!

join up to our newsletter to be informed when new products like this arrive JOIN

Update: These organic breast pads are now available at our store here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/organic_breast_pads.html

Nut and Bee

I stumbled across a lovely blog website recently, with some gorgeous little illustration prints.

I ordered a notepad, as I do get a lot of orders from my website where I wrap the gift and send it directly to the recipient. This is a nice little note pad to write those messages on. I chose this picture becuase it is cute with the child and the bear, and suitable for my product line too.

She has some lovely designs, so do check out her site.

The prices are in $US but it is defintely a NZ site.

http://www.nutandbee.com

HOTmilk Online

This is another one of the new HOTmilk styles that we unloaded today. This is available in small cup sizes from 8A cup to 16F. With matching french knickers and bikini briefs.

Don't you just LOVE the imagery settings that HOTmilk use in their campaigns! So cute!

This is a very light lemon colour, almost pastel lemon is a way to describe it. A very pretty HOTmilk bra with moulded cups and lace. For more details and images, close ups etc, go to our webstore http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk.htm

New HOTmilk Styles

Well I had a busy day here at the business today, I had a tonne of new HOTmilk stock arrive. So lots of unpacking and re-arranging. I think my courier driver Tim was surprised by the sheer number of boxes that he dropped off this morning, and then ALL the parcels that were packed and wrapped for him to collect this afternoon.

A very busy day!

The new styles of HOTmilk are just scrummy. This HOTmilk "Her Playfulness was Captivating" style is a very soft pink, it has a moulded cup which is seam free and has been cut and moulded in one piece. This is PERFECT for under white tops etc, so you "dont smuggle tic-tacs" which means you dont have nipples showing through your clothing on a cold day!

Its quite a baby doll pastel pink colour, and comes with a matching bikini knicker, also low seam showage.

This is one of the first NICE designs of nursing bra that is available in the tshirt cup style.

Do check out more of this HOTmilk Bra on our website, we have other images and close ups to show you.

http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk_lingerie_her_playfulness.html

Be a Star Breastfeeding Campaign in Britain

I recently came across a Breastfeeding Promotional campaign in Britain, where young mums have been photographed in beautiful poses with funky make up and clothes, while breastfeeding their baby.

The aim is give breastfeeding a trendier image amongst new mums in areas where rates fall way below the Government health targets. By raising awareness of the benefits to both mum and baby, health officials are hoping the model mums will help turn the tide from bottle to breast.

I was just blogging about it today, how in the UK breastfeeding is not so widely accepted as here in NZ. (see post here)

But a campaign like this in New Zealand would certainly be beneficial.

I congratulate the people in Britain that have organised this, the creators, the photographers and stylists, and the beautiful mums and their babies!!

Well done, and good luck with your campaign!! It should certainly help breastfeeding appeal to mothers !

You can see more information about Be a Star here: http://www.beastar.org.uk/

Free Stuff

Today I had a pile of old baby stuff that I wanted to get rid of, before we move to our beautiful new home next month. I had some large things like an exersaucer, baby bath, and carseat.

There are 3 opshops in our new town in the Waikato, but I thought I would choose the one that is run by Hospice. Since my beautiful young sister inlaw died just a few months ago to the nasty old cancer, I am going to support hospice with my donations and shop there too. Plus it is right next to the bakery with nice chicken rolls and donuts, so I got lunch too.

Well, anyway, my story is. Just as I was about to walk into the hospice opshop with a big pile of baby things, a lady with a big pregnant belly walked out. I said to her "oh do you need some baby stuff". And she did. So the stuff didn't even make it into the opshop. She was pleased to get free baby stuff too!!

The funny thing was that she was parked right next to my car. She noticed the Breastmates branding on my car and asked if I was Frances. Small world huh!!

She was very pleased with the items, and I was thrilled to be able to give them away and clear some junk!!

HOTmilk Ireland

Another customer in Ireland, recently came back to our maternity products store to buy some more items.

Hi Frances, Our new arrival has been keeping us busy but I'm delighted with the Hot Milk nursing bra's and pj's that I bought from you. It's given me a little lift to know that I can have something pretty still :) Thanks for the milkman boxers offer - can I order the large size please? (these are some free HOTmilk milkman boxers for you guy) Just to let you know that I recommended your website to some friends so you might be getting some enquiries from the Emerald Isle. Take care,Nicola

I always like it when customers email me, even if they are all they from Ireland. Isn't the interent great!!

Wellington Maternity

A customer recently ordered some products from our online maternity store, she is in Wellington.

She wrote back to me:

Hi Frances,
Thank you for sending the order so quickly. It was here in less than a day!

Now I can't take the credit for her fast delivery, must just be a good courier company (or just that day at least!!)

Chu Chu Teat

Would the chuchu teat fit on my avent bottles?

No the chu chu teat wont fit avent, it only fits narrow neck bottles. (Like tommee tippee - but not the tommee tippee closer to nature ones)

For more information, go to our webpage: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/express.htm

Breastfeeding Rates

I was talking to someone the other day, about how good NZ women are at Breastfeeding. It really is considered the norm over here, and most people are comfortable breastfeeding and breastfeeding in public.

The midwives and hospitals here promote breastfeeding so much, and formula is pretty much taboo. The health staff here actually cannot tell people anything about formula due to the WHO rules. Which of course makes things extremly difficult if you are in this situation, so contact us and we can help answer your questions. I'm a mum myself!!

Did you know that Ireland is still years behind. Apparently the hospital midwives push formula on everyone, including breastfeeding mums. It totally undermines new mums. It seems to be a policy to give a newborn formula . They also still give out free samples of formula. There is a small but determined movement growing to make changes but as formula is so the norm, and breastfeeders have such a poor image there they have a long way to go.

Maybe my business Breastmates should spread wings to the Emerald Isle? What can I do to help from here?

Baby Wont Take Bottle

A recent question from a customer of mine:

Baby Wont Take Bottle
Baby is 4 months. I have been trying him with the bottle of expressed milk for over a month, about 20mls of expressed milk 1-2 times everyday. On the floor in my arms, with someone else giving it to him, when he is hungry when he isn’t and he jolly well wont take it. he can as he has sucked about 30mls all in one go about 3 times but as soon as I take the bottle out of his mouth and try again, screaming and pulling away and out comes the breast. I have tried Avent and Tommy Tippee teats. I have almost given up. And so I thought of you…any suggestions of miracle teats or other techniques to try?

So I answered:

With regards to the feeding, I know what a pain and concern it can be when a baby wont take a bottle.

Have a look at this teat, it is a special one called a Chu Chu that works exactly like the breast. So baby has to work the same way to get the milk out, rather than just having the milk pour out like with the avent and tommee tippee teats. Maybe when your baby was drinking from these other teats, he got the milk flow when he started but he didn’t like the rate that it came out.

You can see this special teat on the website here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/chu_chu_teats.html

Also, have you tried him drinking a bottle of water, using the same teat. Then you can check whether it is the teat or not.

Nursing Reminders

I was emailing my friend Bridget today, and she wrote something funny.

She says "Oh, I forgot to tell you something nice - My friend Claire has just had a baby and we were sitting chatting and I had given her the mothers minders bracelet (nursing reminder) that I got off you. Anyway she was telling me how she had seen them on a website and then bought some beautiful lingerie off the lady and how great it was to go to your house to try them on etc. I thought, hmmm that sounds like Fran and it was! Her name is Claire Xname removedX and is one very happy customer. She actually used to play with your husband and his sister when they were little living in Howick. Small, small world. Bridget :)

Bras for Africa

Read the full article written by Waikato Times here For collection and drop off details go here

HOTmilk USA

My repeating customer in New York wrote back to me today, after I said I should deliver her parcel to her in the States. Wouldn't that be nice. But alas, to the post office instead.

She writes: "My new bra (HOTmilk) is definitely so much more comfortable than any others I've tried. Am sure NZ is more beautiful than New York and at least you have clean air and less swine flu!!"

We actually have a few probable cases of Swine flu this week, after some students returned from Mexico. My husband thinks it is the pharmaceutical companies trying to sell more medicines during a recession, they started a story.

HOTmilk Australia

A customer recently purchased some HOTmilk items from my online website, she is based in Australia so it was great for her to take advantage of our sale prices and exchange rate prices. Even with the cost of shipping it was cheaper for her to purchase HOTmilk from us in New Zealand rather than from her local store.

The parcel was sent on 26th April, and today 4th May, she says:

Hi Frances,
Package arrived on Friday last week and pyjamas are fabulous.
Thanks for an efficient service!
Cheers, Zoe.

http://www.breastmates.co.nz/hotmilk.htm

Sunday News

Bras for Africa
The Sunday News picked up on our bra story which was also on Stuff.co.nz and the Waikato Times last week as part of the Knickers for Africa programme.

I think a lot of people will be doing google searches for me and Knickers for Africa this week, as unfortunately the article didnt specify any contact details. So I dont know how they were meant to know where to send the bras!!

Anyone can contact me via my website here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz

Thank you
Frances McInnes

Breast Pump Hire

I read a short article in our Waikato newspaper last week, which said that the third breast pump is missing from Waikato Hospital's newborn intensive care unit.

"The $3000 breast pump was taken between 7pm Tuesday and 10am Wednesday. Police are investigating and looking at closed circuit television coverage. On Christmas Eve last year, thieves took two breast pumps from the unit. Two breast pumps that were in storage and due for mothballing are now being used by mothers in the ward."

Its sad for a mother of a newborn baby, under a stressful time, but good on her for breastfeeding and going to the effort of expressing milk. Its just weird that the breast pump got stolen.

It was probably the medela symphony breast pump. The Symphony pump is about the only $3000 breast pump available, its a real premium one made by medela. They are about $100 a month to hire one.

Hire pumps are shown here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/Medela_Breast_Pump_hire.html

Breastmates Blog

Breastmates blog posts written in April 2009.

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States
Breast-Feeding Cushion
Order from Australia
Super Size your Breast Pump? No
Pump Battery Cover
HOTmilk Australia
Medela Nipple Shields
Mothers Day Prizes
Driving in the Country
manual breast pump
breast pads
Mumcho Poncho
The Cat Wrecked my Breast Pump
Maternity Stockings
Hire Breast Pump Waikato
Red Breastfeeding Top
Nursing Clothing for Winter
Breast Feeding Clothes - Long Sleeve
Breastfeeding Hoodies for Winter
Maternity Products Waikato
Bras for Africa - UK
Bras for Africa Australia
Breastfeeding Hoodies
Winter Nursing Tops
Long Sleeve Nursing Tops
Breastfeeding Hoodie
Breast Feeding Tops for Winter
Baby Gifts
Nature's Sway Slng
Bras for Africa
some personal feedback that i want to gloat about
Mothers Minder Wristbands
Family Owned Business
Medela Spare Parts for Pump
Chu Chu Teats
Customer Service or Not?
Breast Pump Not Working - Solution
Breast Pump Looses Suction
Waikato Maternity
Breast Pump Prices
Blog Posts for March
C-Town
Free Gift with Purchase
milkman boxers
Breastmates Waikato

Waikato Times

A reporter came yesterday from the Waikato Times who had picked up on the Bras for Africa story. He had never seen so many bras in his life! We made a bra mountain and took a photo.

The story was in the newspaper today, and has also been on the front page of Stuff.co.nz. Also today I've had 4 phone calls from Radio Hosts who have interviewed me over the phone about it all!

A friend of mine just told me on Facebook that she had heard me talking on ZM. She said

"Hiya, you def did NOT sound like a dork!! Sounded professional and compassionate! and like someone who was on the radio a lot, was brilliant" Phew that is so reassuring. I always think I sound so squeaky when recorded. And I didn't know they had been recording until after!

Must be not much happening in the world today for this to make news! But thanks, and thanks everyone for the bras.

breast-feeding tops

Another customer who ordered some breast-feeding clothes says

My breast-feeding top arrived in today’s mail. I just wanted to say thank you – it’s really lovely, the size is perfect and looks like it will be very practical. You never know exactly what you’re going to get when you order online sight unseen, so I’m really thrilled! Thanks again, Kathy

And for other customers that are thinking about purchasing from our online store, then rest assured that if you order but don't like it when it arrives, you are welcome to return it.

Breastfeeding Tops Australia

Some lovely feedback from another customer in Australia. Her parcel took 5 days to arrive. This lady purchased some breastfeeding tops.

The first order came really quickly and the tops are great thank you, hence ordering more.
I showed a couple other mums the casual zip top which they thought was fantastic so have given your web site out. I also have a coffee group meet up next week which I'm going to show your tops at because I've been telling them about them as well.
Your nursing tops are good quality and the casual T-shirts are a reasonable price compared to other retailers, especially for new mums who have gone down to one income. I'm sure my coffee group will be keen to get some.
Many thanks again,

Medula Spare Parts

I get urgent messages like this occassionally


Hi. I am in desperate need for the Medula Pump in Style CLEAR diaphragm cap. I keep seeing that it is discontinued. I have to find one fast. Can you PLEEEEESE help???? Thanks!


Sorry to say, that this is one of the few medela spare parts that is nolonger available.

States

An email from the States (New York) ordered some products from me. She purchased them on 20th April, and now has received them on 30th April. Not bad delivery.

She writes:

Thanks for the order - have received my lingerie and love it - so comfortable. Please can you let me know when you get any new designs in the future. Cheers, Caroline

Breast-Feeding Cushion

Some more feedback that I just received from a customer who ordered a nursing cushion from my NZ webstore. You can see our range of nursing pillows here: http://www.breastmates.co.nz/pillows.htm

Thanks for the great breast-feeding cushion, the BabyFirst one. It is taking a lot of the strain off my shoulders now that my baby is getting a bit heavier. The roll bars are great, that extra bit of security is fantastic. Also like that it clips around the waist so that the cushion can't move away from my body. Thanks for a great product. Nicola

Order from Australia

Some lovely feedback from a customer in Australia:

Hi Frances – you offer a very efficient and personal service and I think your business deserves to succeed and flourish. My parcel of HOTmilk arrived this morning. I’m really impressed with the speed of your service and will be letting my Mother’s Group friends know about you!
Kind regards
Megan

My business is www.breastmates.co.nz

It makes my day to get a lovely message like this :-)

Super Size your Breast Pump? No

Someone told me today that they have been reading my blog, and she says

"There’s one post in particular where you tell a woman about the various breastpumps, and tell her she’d be better with what would be the cheaper single electric pump. That post speaks volumes about you, and how you care about your clients more than the profit margins..."

Yes that is true, I would hate for someone to purchase the wrong breast pump from me and find they they had spent too much money when they only needed a small pump rather than a turbo one. 'tis all part of the service.

Pump Battery Cover

A question from a customer

Hi there,
I have a Madela Mini breast pump and have lost the battery cover - can you let me know if it is possible to get one - if so how much would it be.
Regards

No sorry unfortunately we don’t sell the battery cover for mini electric as a spare part. We do have spare parts for all other parts of the medela equipment, its just the pump battery cover for the mini electric is not sold as a spare. Sorry!